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Wednesday, February 18, 2009,7:47 AM
just want to be happie




人之所以痛苦,
在于追求错误的东西。
如果你不给自己烦恼,
别人也永远不可能给你烦恼。
因为你自己的内心,你放不下。
好好的管教你自己,不要管别人。

你随时要认命,因为你是人。
这个世界本来就是痛苦的,没有例外的。

你什么时候放下,
什么时候就没有烦恼。
每一种创伤,
都是一种成熟。

当你烦恼的时候,
你就要告诉你自己,
这一切都是假的,
你烦恼什么?

根本不必回头去看咒骂你的人是谁,
如果有一条疯狗咬你一口,
难道你也要趴下去反咬他一口吗?

忌妒别人,不会给自己增加任何的好处。
忌妒别人,也不可能减少别人的成就。

永远不要浪费你的一分一秒,
去想任何你不喜欢的人。

得不到的东西,
我们会一直以为他是美好的,
那是因为你对他了解太少,
没有时间与他相处在一起。
当有一天,你深入了解后,
你会发现原不是你想像中的那么美好。

这个世间只有圆滑,没有圆满的。

不要刻意去猜测他人的想法,
如果你没有智慧与经验的正确判断,
通常都会有错误的。

你要感谢告诉你缺点的人。

时间总会过去的,
让时间流走你的烦恼吧!

不要因为小小的争执,
远离了你至亲的好友,
也不要因为小小的怨恨,
忘记了别人的大恩。

感谢上苍我所拥有的,
感谢上苍我所没有的。

当你手中抓住一件东西不放时,
你只能拥有这件东西,
如果你肯放手,
你就有机会选择别的。
人的心若死执自己的观念,不肯放下,
那么他的智慧也只能达到某种程度而已。

如果你能够平平安安的渡过一天,
那就是一种福气了。
多少人在今天已经见不到明天的太阳,
多少人在今天已经成了残废,
多少人在今天已经失去了自由,
多少人在今天已经家破人亡。

恶口永远不要出自于我们的口中,
不管他有多坏,有多恶。
你愈骂他,你的心就被污染了,
你要想,他就是你的善知识。

你不要常常觉得自己很委曲,
你应该要想,
他对我这样已经很好了,
这就是修行的功夫。

世界原本就不是属于你,
因此你用不着抛弃,
要抛弃的是一切的执著。
万物皆为我所用,但非我所属。

学会用理解的,欣赏的眼光去看对方,
而不是以自以为是的关心去管对方。

成熟的人不问过去;
聪明的人不问现在;
豁达的人不问未来。

发光并非太阳的专利,
你也可以发光。

你可以用爱得到全世界,
你也可以用恨失去全世界。

爱的力量大到可以使人忘记一切,
却又小到连一粒嫉妒的沙石也不能容纳。

人总是珍惜未得到的,
而遗忘了所拥有的。
如你想要拥有完美无暇的友谊,
可能一辈子找不到朋友。

~♥~ wheRe is my hAppinEss ~♥~









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-hEaRtaChEs-
whEn thEn wiLL it lEavEs...


When will this river of tears stop fallin'
Where can I run so I won't feel alone
Can't walk away when the pain keeps callin'
I've just gotta take it from here on my own
But it's so hard to let go



~分手就象 失去翅膀~
~想遍着你 的我~
~飞不到原来 的方向~
~每当象现在 我感觉到悲伤~
~我会努力 让你走的方式飞翔~

【只要相信,就会看见幸福的绿光】

ღ~谁能给我 一支神奇的锁~ღ
ღ~轻轻一开 就让寂寞飞走~ღ
好希望有人教我怎么忘记伤痛





I just can't understand
the ways of all the men
and their mistakes
You give them
all your heart
And then they
rip it all away

You told me how much
you loved me
And how our love
was meant to be
And I believed in you
I thought that
you would set me free

You should've just
told me the truth
That I wasn't
the girl for you
Still,
I didn't have a clue
So my heart
depended on you, whoa~

Although I'll say
I hate you now
Though I'll shout
and curse you out
I'll always have love for you
Because I am a girl

Been told a man
will leave you cold
Get sick of you and bored
I know that it's no lie
I gave my all,
still I just cry

Never again
will I be fooled
To give my all
when nothing's true
I won't be played again
But I will fall in love again

I loved you so
Now you leave me in the cold
How could this be
I tot that you'd only love me

Into the night
I will pray that you're alright
You hurt me so
I just can't let you go

You took advantage
of my willingness
To do anything for love
Now I'm the only one in pain
Will u please take it all away

Never tot being born a girl
How i can love you
and be burned
And now I will build a wall
To never get torn again



【我会学着放弃你】
【是因为我太爱你】









♥~g0aLs~♥ :D
w0rk haRd...
leArN t0 L0vE MYSELF!♥
LeaRn t0 bE hAppiE
sLim d0wN
bE m0Re c0nfidEnt
caRe m0Re f0r othErs♥
cLeAr aLL dEbtS N saVe up
g0 t0 tAiwAn bY dEc!!


y0u caNNot juDge a tRee,
0r a peRs0n,
by onLy oNe sEas0n,
aNd thAt tHe essEnce
of wHo thEy aRe
aNd tHe pLeasUre,
j0y, aNd loVe
tHat coMe fRom
thAt Life
cAn onLy bE
mEasUred at tHe eNd,
whEn aLL thE
sEas0ns aRe up.
IF y0u giVe uP
whEn it's wiNter,
y0u wiLL miss tHe
pr0miSe oF yoUr spRing,
thE beaUty
oF youR sUmmEr,
fuLfiLmeNt oF
y0ur faLL.
Don't Let tHe pAin
0f oNe sEas0n
dEstr0y tHe j0y
oF aLL tHe reSt.
Don't jUdgE LifE bY onE
diFficuLt seAsoN.

PerSevEre thRouGh
tHe difFicuLt pAtcHes
aNd beTTer tiMes
aRe suRe t0 coMe
soMe tiMe.

Live SimpLy
Love GenEroUsLy.
CaRe DeepLy.
SpEak KiNdLy.
LeavE tHe ReSt
TO G0D.


Happiness keeps You Sweet
Trials keep You Strong
Sorrows keep You Human
Failures keep You Humble
Success keeps You Glowing
BUT
Only God keeps You Going



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